List prepared by the Toronto Times based on the advice of our women readers:

1. Love/Adulation;

2. Attention;

3. Recognition for whatever they do;

4. Emotional intimacy;

5. Companionship;

6. Security;

7. Shopping;

8. Dinner time together (no sex);

9. Talking (no sex);and

10. Good sex. Good practice and communication make for great sex. Clitoral and vaginal blendid orgasim represent "sexual bliss".

Please note gentlemen that sex is number 10 and not 1 to 10. Dr.Jennifer Bermand and Laura Berman Ph.d. remind us that for sexually satisfied women, intimacy and closeness are the foundaions for sexual satisfaction and sexual feelings. Its the commitment, security, affection, and caring that arouse the women the most.Sexual bond for women usually begins outside the bedroom